In my school all the students of different levels of society were together, dividing themselves up into different cliques. If you weren't in the correct clique you were "unpopular". Wanting to be popular seemed to consume everyone's thinking. But on the side of school learning, there was always the "smart" kids and then kids like me, barely passing and more interested in "goofing off" than "learning". To me, since our family was more on the "poor" side of town, the idea of college was never an option. I did get to go to a year of vocational education getting my "clerk typist certificate". But why was college never an option? I ask myself that question and why wasn't I encouraged to do that? I ended up believing that I could just get married and all my problems would be solved, which was on the mind of a lot of girls my age - except the college bound ones.
I don't have a lot of fond memories of high school, it was so long ago, my life has moved on.
"It seemed that the smart kids were encouraged more than the regular students.'
ReplyDeletethat phrase is still true today. I have three boys who went thru the North Kitsap school system and all three had something unique about them. My oldest was put off writing(he was an awesome writer - still is), by his English teacher because although he wrote a terrific report she didn't like the subject(George Bush). go figure, it was an English class.
I find that I am also from a similar way of thinking as you. I was not encouraged to go to college either, I did go to OC for a few quarters right out of high school, but I did not have my mind set on transferring to the university level. For me, I went through vocational training in medical assisting to train for a job.
ReplyDeleteI wish I felt more encouraged to go on to bigger and brighter things while in high school. Something beyond just waiting to get married and have a husband who would take care of the family financially while I took care of the home.